blog #11

Today’s Song of the day is inspired by embracing my femininity.

Growing up I was raised in a home where my mom was my dad’s sugar baby.

in my adult life I have been super turned off by the idea of a member of the

male species ever paying for anything of mine.

That being said, Im trying to change that mentality because it is very black

and white. I encourage any female who feels this way to ask themselves

the following question: If you can give it to yourself why would you not

accept it from someone else?

although I am still struggling to find the balance and am hyper

independent in every single area of my life- when and if the right person

comes along one day and they want to pay for my things I don’t think I

would say no. as long as I can give it to myself. I feel like accepting gifts

from someone that you can buy for yourself is okay.

So yea thats what this song is about.

and to any family reading this or to my mother who might feel personally

victimized by my statements: You are what you eat sweetheart <3 giving

good head doesn’t count as a job.

XOXO.

COco